This story is from Emily, a 26-year-old pharmaceutical consultant in NYC, as told to Raz: I live in a studio apartment alone. A couple weeks back, my super had been in my apartment making some repairs, and on his way out, locked a lock on my door that I don’t have a key to. This […]
November 5, 2012
This story is from Megan, a 28-year-old writer in NYC, as told to Raz: I was kind of a late bloomer. As a freshman in college, I still hadn’t had my first kiss. And I was getting antsy. The crew team at my school had to be dry for Spring season, and as soon as […]
November 2, 2012
This story is from Roxie, a 22-year-old student in Boston, as told to Raz: Hank and I were hooking up during my freshman year of college. He was gorgeous and totally jacked. We had tons of chemistry in bed, but in general, we had absolutely nothing in common and very little to talk about. Most […]
October 29, 2012
The best and worst part of online dating usually has nothing to do with the dates. It’s all about the messages. Here are the ten most creepy, hilarious or just plain weird unsolicited messages I’ve gotten this month (Yup, this is only one month’s worth). Unfortunately, they have not been edited at all (except one […]
October 26, 2012
There were lots of things that happened on my date with Jeremy that made me not like him. The first was that he showed up wearing a maroon velvet jacket, his too-long hair parted straight down the center and a smug half smile on his face. He was definitely not my type. Here are the […]
October 24, 2012
One Saturday night, my friend Fiona invited me to a party hosted by her friend Sara. Though I didn’t know anyone there, and had only met Sara a couple times, I assumed there would be plenty of eligible bachelors. (Sara had recently started law school. Cha ching!) Fiona and I showed up to the bar […]
October 17, 2012
This story is from Jules, a 21-year-old student from Chicago, as told to Raz: This is the story of my first date. Funny thing was: I spent most of it having no idea I was even on a date. I was 17, and my friend took me to a college party. I met a guy […]
October 15, 2012
I was excited about Eddie. In his JDate photos, he was super hot, tall and athletic. Plus, our emails proved that we actually had a lot in common. After about 5 messages back and forth, he asked for my number, which I happily handed over. When he called me the next night, I was nervous […]
October 12, 2012
This story is from Dana, a 22-year-old student from Chicago, as told to Raz: It was our fourth date, and I brought Steve back to my place to seal the deal. The sex was great (if a little too speedy), and I was feeling good. Post hook up, we were lying in bed. For God […]
October 10, 2012
I know I’m not supposed to judge a book by its cover—or a man by his dating profile picture. But no online dater in her right mind would agree to go out with a guy without giving his picture some serious consideration. It continues to shock me how many guys post photos that are laughingly […]

Real dates, real men, real disasters
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